* Moscow says Syria to ship more chemicals
* Chemical arms deal has strengthened Assad - U.S. official
* Both sides inflicting suffering on children - U.N. chief
* Aleppo residents flee barrels bombs
* Russia says government will attend peace talks
By Gabriela Baczynska and Erika Solomon
MOSCOW/BEIRUT, Feb 4 (Reuters) - Russia said its ally Syria would soon ship more chemical weapons abroad for destruction after being accused of dragging its feet, while activists said civilians in Aleppo were fleeing deadly barrel bomb raids by President Bashar al-Assad's air force.
Moscow also said on Tuesday that the Syrian government would show up at a new round of peace talks next week, hoping to allay Western concerns over Assad's commitment to negotiations which ended inconclusively in Geneva last week.
Underlining the cost of the three-year conflict, United Nations Secretary-General Ban Ki-moon said armed opposition groups were recruiting Syrian refugee children in neighbouring countries while Damascus government forces were detaining and torturing children with rebel links.
Russia gave its diplomatic assurances as government forces escalate their assault on Syria's second city of Aleppo, using a near daily barrage of barrel bombs that some activists say is forcing residents to flee and slowly gaining ground for the president against rebel forces weakened by weeks of infighting.
While the fall of Aleppo is not seen as imminent, Assad is keen to control it, together with the capital Damascus and his heartland along the coast. But the rest of the country remains fragmented between rebel, Kurds and other armed groups.
Western analysts say Assad's use of indiscriminate weapons such as barrel bombs and his delaying the process of eliminating his chemical arsenal suggests he sees little prospect of the West taking meaningful action against him.
Reuters photographs showed streets packed with Aleppo residents carrying large packs as they fled the home-made barrel bombs - oil drums or cylinders packed with explosives and metal fragments.
Barrel bombs, cheap and easy to construct and usually dropped from helicopters, often kill dozens at a time. Activists say they are being used to push people from rebel-held areas into state-controlled parts of the city.
"In recent days the flight of civilians has intensified and the regime has made some small gains," said Rami Abdelrahman, head of the Syrian Observatory for Human Rights, a pro-opposition monitoring group. "The main aid to their advance has been the rebel infighting."
The reported gains by Assad's forces are small. But if they build on them and take the rebel-held part of Syria's former business hub, it would be a huge blow to the opposition, forcing it back into the northern and eastern countryside and leaving it without a major presence in either of the two biggest cities.
Other opposition sources deny government advances. Media access in Syria is severely limited by violence and government restrictions, making conflicting accounts difficult to verify.
Syria's civil war has killed more than 130,000 people and forced over 6 million from their homes.
In a report to the U.N. Security Council, Ban said that in the early stages of the conflict, government troops were mostly responsible for grave violations against children; then later the opposition committed a growing number of child abuses.
Armed opposition groups had recruited and used children in support roles and for combat. The U.N. did not receive reports of formal recruitment of children by government forces, but troops and pro-government militia reportedly intimidated and seized young males, some under 18, to join them.
"The suffering endured by the children in the Syrian Arab Republic since the outset of the conflict, as documented in this report, is unspeakable and unacceptable," Ban said in the report, dated Jan. 27, which was posted online on Tuesday.
Russia and the United States, aligned to Assad and the rebels respectively, have been deadlocked and unable to ease the violence. But they joined forces to launch the Geneva peace negotiations which began two weeks ago. The first round produced few results, but a second starts next week.
Preparations for the talks took place in tandem with a deal to remove Syria's chemical weapons, agreed a month after a poison gas attack in the Damascus suburbs on Aug. 21 which killed hundreds. The deal allowed Assad to escape U.S.-led air strikes.
Syria has failed to meet its deadline to eliminate all chemical agents by next week, but Russia said the government would be able to complete the removal by March 1.
"Literally yesterday the Syrians announced that the removal of a large shipment of chemical substances is planned in February. They are ready to complete this process by March 1," said Russian Deputy Foreign Minister Gennady Gatilov, according to the state-run Russian news agency RIA.
In Washington, U.S. intelligence chief James Clapper said there appeared little chance rebels would soon overthrow Assad.
"The prospects are right now that (Assad) is actually in a strengthened position than when we discussed this last year, by virtue of his agreement to remove the chemical weapons, as slow as that process has been," said Clapper, who is director of national intelligence.
Testifying to the House of Representatives intelligence committee, he did not say why the agreement had boosted Assad.
The delay in removing chemical weapons has prompted Western criticism that Damascus was seeking to gain leverage during the peace talks. Russia says those concerns are overblown and rejects claims that the move is deliberate, while Syria has blamed security concerns for the delay.
Russia also hosted on Tuesday the leader of the opposition's National Coalition, Ahmad Jarba, for the first time since the conflict began in 2011.
Moscow wants to persuade the Coalition-led delegation at Geneva to include more moderate internal opposition groups, which rebels argue are Assad stooges.
Jarba rejected any groups that had been prepared "in the basements of the regime's security service". "There will be nobody in the opposition delegation to Geneva who is tied to the regime this way or another," he said.
On the ground in Syria, Assad's forces are pushing for gains in the north, where rebels hold swathes of territory, and central Syria, which links to the capital Damascus and the president's stronghold on the coast.
Like many parts of Syria, Aleppo is divided between rebel and Assad forces in a stalemate that has lasted over a year, killing hundreds with little change in the balance of power.
But the rebel hold on Aleppo, Syria's largest city, has been weakened after an alliance of Islamist and secular rebel groups tried to force out a radical al Qaeda splinter group, the Islamic State of Iraq and the Levant (ISIL).
(Additional reporting by Warren Strobel in Washington; Editing by Giles Elgood and David Stamp)